Feel

Go to a party and stay sober. Listen to the way your drunk classmates talk when they don’t plan to remember tonight when they wake up. Never talk about these experiences, just keep them for yourself.

Start driving in one direction on the highway after school one day, pretending like you’re running away. Blast bad pop music and sing along. Stop in the suburbs when your mom calls you to come home, but buy your little brother a cupcake before you turn back around.

Kiss your best friend. It doesn’t matter what sexuality or gender you are or they are. It doesn’t matter if it’s a peck or you escalate to tongue. You’ll laugh about it later, but it will always make you smile just for the memory.

Smoke a cigarette. Let it burn your throat. Cough, loudly.

Take a stand for something you believe in. When half your school laughs at you, take it with pride. Someone agrees, even if they’re too scared to say so.

Make enemies. Make the kind of mistakes that cause your life to implode. Lose everyone and everything to these mistakes. Only when you fall will you find out that you can pick yourself back up.

Sit on someone’s roof and talk for hours. Forget about dinner and tell your origin stories. Let your guard down while the dog barks below. Talk about god. Listen.

Steal Bourbon from your parents’ liquor cabinet and put it in a water bottle beneath your bathroom sink. Spike your tea with it when you think you’ve hit rock bottom. Pour the whole thing down the drain when it’s too strong for you.

Become a stereotype. Buy a record player and combat boots. Wear all black. Dye your hair bright blue and get your ear pierced three times. Don’t care when people laugh at you.

Make wishes at 11:11. Wear your pajamas backwards in the hopes of a snow day. Look for answers at the bottom of a bottle. Pretend writing things on your arms makes you special. Believe in anything. Believe in everything. Open every book and look around every corner. You’ll never look like this or move like this or think like this again. Enjoy it while it lasts or hate every second. But feel. Feel every damn thing.

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Found this on Tumblr and I loved it! 🙂

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I came across a quote on Tumblr. Well, I’m not exactly sure if it’s a quote or what but here it is –

You are stronger than you realize.
You are crueler than you realize.
The smallest words will break your heart.
You will change. You’re not the same person you were three years ago. You’re not even the same person you were three minutes ago and that’s okay. Especially if you don’t like the person you were three minutes ago.
People come and go. Some are cigarette breaks, others are forest fires.
You won’t like your name until you hear someone say it in their sleep.
You’ll forget your email password but ten years from now you’ll still remember the number of steps up to his flat.
You don’t have to open the curtains if you don’t want to.
Never stop yourself from texting someone. If you love them at 4 a.m., tell them. If you still love them at 9.30 a.m., tell them again.
Make sure you have a safe place. Whether it’s the kitchen floor or the Travel section of a bookshop, just make sure you have a safe place.
You will be scared of all kinds of things, of spiders and clowns and eating alone, but your biggest fear will be that people will see you the way you see yourself.
Sometimes, looking at someone will be like looking into the sun. Sometimes someone will look at you like you are the sun. Wait for it.
You will learn how to sleep alone, how to avoid the cold corners but still fill a bed.
Always be friends with the broken people. They know how to survive.
You can love someone and hate them, all at once. You can miss them so much you ache but still ignore your phone when they call.
You are good at something, whether it’s making someone laugh or remembering their birthday. Don’t ever let anyone tell you that these things don’t matter.
You will always be hungry for love. Always. Even when someone is asleep next to you you’ll envy the pillow touching their cheek and the sheet hiding their skin.
Loneliness is nothing to do with how many people are around you but how many of them understand you.
People say I love you all the time. Even when they say, ‘Why didn’t you call me back?’ or ‘He’s an asshole.’ Make sure you’re listening.
You will be okay.
You will be okay.

I don’t know why, but I love this! 

Kindness

Random stuff

Sorry for this incredibly stupid tumblr tag I got. I am so bored and I am currently procrastinating on studying for my exams. I have three exams tomorrow. I really should study but whatever.

1. Last kiss – Was last December.
2. Last phone call – was at around 3 this afternoon with one of my friends from my previous school.
3. Last text message – was about the ongoing exams.
4. Last song you listened to – Townie by Mitski
5. Last time you cried – Day before yesterday.
HAVE YOU EVER:
6. Dated someone twice – No.
7. Been cheated on – Sadly, yes.
8. Self harmed – Umm, yeah.
9. Lost someone special – Yes.
10. Been depressed – Yes, a couple f years back.
11. Been drunk and threw up – Yeah. Drinking isn’t really my thing anymore though.
THIS YEAR HAVE YOU:
12. had sex – yes.
13. How many people have you had sex with this year? – 1
15. Made a new friend – yes.
17. Laughed until you cried – yeah, I usedto have this friendwho was the most hillarious person I knew. We used to hangout after out tution classes and she used to make me laugh like crazy!
18. Met someone who changed you – yes. 🙂
19. Found out who your true friends were – Umm, I don’t know, I guess.
20. Found out someone was talking about you – Yes
26. What did you do for your last Birthday – Not much. Just a really lamebirthday dinne.
27. What time did you wake up today – I dint sleep last night. Was studying all night for the psychology exam that was today.
29. Name something you CANNOT wait for – Summer Vacations!
30. Last time you saw your all of your siblings at the same time – Last december. We had a wedding in the family for which my cousins fromall over the world came.
31. What is one thing you wish you could change about your life – Umm, I don’t know, I don’treally want to chnge much.
32. What are you listening to right now – Townie
33. When is the last time you had sex? – January
34. Who’s getting on your nerves right now – This girl is my spainsh class whodoesn’t makeany notes and thenkeeps beging for mine.
35. Most visited webpage – Tumblr and wordpress
36. Favorite colour – Black, blue, red and purple.
37. Nicknames – Nainz, Naini, muskan, chinky
38. Relationship Status – single
39. Zodiac sign – leo virgo cusp.
40. Male or female – female
41. Primary school – St. Thomas School
42. Secondary School – S.P.S
43. High school/college- P.W.S
44. Eye color – darkest brown
46. Height – 5’1
47. Do you have a crush on someone – yes
48. What do you like about yourself- umm, I am not really sure what I like about me.
49. Piercings – Just have an ear peircing but i want many more.
50. Tattoos- dont have any yet, but definately one day!
51. Righty or lefty – Righty
FIRSTS:
53. First piercing – was my ear peircing when I was a baby
54. First best friend- Is also my current best friend
55. First hookup- was interesting.
56. First Bestfriend – was an asshole
RIGHT NOW:
59. Eating – crackers
60. Drinking – coconut water
61. I’m about to- start studying again
62. Listening to – Townie (on replay)
63. Waiting for – Summer vacations!
YOUR FUTURE:
64. Want kids? – yes, i think so.
65. Get married? – maybe.
66. Career – should be something I like.
WHICH IS BETTER:
67. Lips or eyes- omg, I cannot choose. Both.
68. Hugs or kisses – Same as above.
69. Shorter or taller – same height or taller.
70. Older or Younger – same age or older.
71. Romantic or spontaneous- sometimes this, sometimes that.
72. Nice stomach or nice arms – nice arms
73. Sensitive or loud – both
74. Hook-up or relationship – depends!
HAVE YOU EVER:
76. Kissed a stranger – Umm, yeah
77. Drank hard liquor – yup!
78. Lost glasses/contacts – not lost but broken a pair of my glasses.
79. Had sex – yes!
80. Broken someone’s heart – not that I know of.
82. Been arrested – nope!
83. Turned someone down – Yes, once.
84. Cried when someone died – no.
85. Fallen for a friend – yeah, sort of but not exactly.
DO YOU BELIEVE IN:
86. Yourself – sometimes.
87. Miracles – depends.
88. Love at first sight – yes
89. Heaven – no, not really.
90. Santa Clause – hahah used to!
91. Kiss on the first date – yeah sure, why not.
92. Angels – um, I don’t know.
93. How would you label yourself? – Sorry this is lame af but as a Human being.
94. Someone You Pray Everyday For – I don’t really pray everyday.
95. Did you sing today – yup!
96. Who From All Your Ex’s have You Cared The Most About – I am so done with all my exes.
97. If you could go back in time, how far would you go? – I probably wouldn’t.
98. Out Of Everything In The World What Do You Wish For – For my crush to like me back. Yeah, I know it is stupid and selfish.
99. Are you afraid of falling in love? – maybe a little.
100. Do you like the way you look? – no, not really.

OMG This.

Found this on Tumblr.

Day 25 – Favorite blogs/websites

Since i joined WordPress, I have started reading and loving so many blogs. Here is a list of some of my favorites. I like all the blogs I follow (obviously, that why I follow them) and it’s really difficult choose favorites but here are a few.

1. The Finicky Cynic

2. It’s a Britta Bottle!

3. Ciara’s Palette

4. A Smile to a Stranger

5. Humyn

6. In Noir Velvet

7. unfolding

8. Discoveries in the labyrinth – This blog I really really love. Her blog is amazing.

My favorite websites are WordPress, Tumblr, and YouTube. I also like We Heart it. Anyways, I definitely urge everyone to check out the above mentioned blogs, they are amazing!

All that happened this february…

Oh my god. So much happened over this past month or so that I am having trouble digesting all of it. I mean, it wasn’t anything big, but there were so many small but important events that happened and so I am just going to list them out. Both the good ones and the not so good ones. So here goes-

1. I was part of something called- Regional Round Square Conference. The theme for the conference was ‘Translate- Transform- Transfer’. Guest speakers from different walks of life came to our school to share their success stories and to talk about how they changed their lives. And then the participants were divided into groups and were supposed to discuss about what they heard and their views on the topic, etc. So I wasn’t really a participant. I was part of the press, which basically meant that i was assigned one group per day ( It was a 3-day long conference) and I had to write reports on each of the activities and events they took part in. It was the first time I did something like this and it was amazing. I had a lot of fun and I also got to learn a lot from the amazing Head of press and head of design. We were in school till 10 every night and we also had activities like a drama workshop and an art and design workshop. I also got to make some new friends and I was really luck to have been assigned to a group which had amazing group leaders. Added benefit, I got to hang out with R (my crush). Also, on the last night of the conference we had a party and so all of us dressed up and had dinner and danced, so that was a lot of fun too. Not so good part of the conference was that I kind of moved further away from my already breaking friend circle.

2. I have become insanely addicted to tumblr. (My URL – itsmylabyrinth.tumblr.com) It has become my number one procrastination destination. I put of everything including my school work to just do random stuff on tumblr.

3. I made a new friend who is really really cool. (Read the post titled- my mini breakdown- for more about her.)

4. I had a minor breakdown in school. (Again, read the post titled- my mini breakdown- for more about it)

5. We had a psychology session on Neuro-linguistic programming. A professor from a university in Spain conducted it and it was really amazing!

6. Thanks to my procrastination and my easily distracted mind, I have missed 4 deadlines for submission of important school work. 4!!!!!

7. My little sister’s birthday is coming up. Its her 12th birthday. She is growing up soo fast. I still remember her holding my hand when she was 3 to go to the playground with me. And then when she was around 5 she used to pretend to read all my books! I was seen her grow up into a beautiful young lady! My relationship with her has improved so much over the past few months and she has started sharing everything with me. I hope my baby is always happy!

8. I just got a Harry Potter bracelet and pendant. The bracelet has a snitch, an owl and a deathly hallows symbol on it. And the pendant is also a deathly hallows symbol.

9. Valentines day was the most uneventful day ever.

10. I have decided to start saving up money for a trip to the states. I don’t know if I will be able to save enough to go or not but its worth a shot.